We have a new baby! This one’s our third, and our second boy. The birth itself went quite smoothly, though he was having some minor breathing problems and had to spend a couple of hours in the NICU until they resolved. For that reason (and also because of some medication that made her shiver uncontrollably for nearly an hour), my wife said the immediate recovery from this birth was much more difficult than the other two. But he came out in one push, just like our other son. The staff wasn’t expecting that, and had to scramble to get another nurse in to help with everything.
While my wife and I were both in the hospital for the birth, my in-laws kept our other two kids overnight and watched them all day. But things got a little crazy when my father-in-law almost sawed his fingers off on a table saw, and had to go into the hospital for that. Then my mother-in-law came down with a cold, which quickly turned into walking pneumonia, so we took the kids back and all drove back home together after Mommy and baby were discharged from the hospital.
Right now, everyone in the family has a cold except for me and the baby. Hopefully it stays that way, though it is just a common cold, not RSV or anything worse. Still, we really don’t want the baby to get sick in his first week of life, which is why I’m watching him today. He’s currently sleeping on a pillow next to my writing computer.
Honestly, it’s been kind of nice—with my wife running around with the other two kids, I’m free to write and catch up on publishing tasks. The baby is super chill, and actually sleeps for four hours at a time, which ironically means that we’re sleeping better now than we were in the last few weeks of the pregnancy, since my wife had to get up almost every hour to empty her bladder. He also burps really well—so well, in fact, that sometimes we don’t realize that he’s already burped, and try forever to get another burp out of him only to give him the hiccups. But so far, he’s only spit up once (though he has peed on the changing pad table maybe half a dozen times).
Hopefully the cold runs its course in the next couple of days. And hopefully my in-laws recover from all the craziness soon, because they really would like to finally hold this new baby (and we would really like them to help watch our other kids). In the meantime, we’re just taking it a day at a time, doing our best to keep up on things without overstretching ourselves too much.
My current WIP is The Unknown Sea, and it’s coming along fairly well. I’m working on the AI draft simultaneously while humanizing it for the rough human draft, which is actually working out surprisingly well. AI writing and human writing work two different sets of mental muscles, so it’s kind of nice to switch off between the two. Keeps from burning out too much on any one thing. Also, the fact that I’m doing it all in the same WIP means that I don’t need to switch gears for a different book/series/genre. That switching can be tough.
It looks like The Unknown Sea is going to be a bit longer than my other Sea Mage Cycle books, though how much longer, I’m not yet sure. Still more fantasy adventure than epic fantasy. My hope is to finish the revised AI draft in the next four weeks, and the rough human draft another week or two after that, though with the new baby in the house, that is probably a wildly unrealistic goal. Still, he is a surprisingly mellow baby, so there is a chance.
Of course, the most important thing right now is to make sure the family is doing well, especially my wife. So that’s going to be the focus, until we can finally get settled into something of a new routine. Not sure how long that will take or what that will look like. But overall, we’re doing quite well.
Congratulations! 🙂