{"id":7951,"date":"2012-12-27T01:48:49","date_gmt":"2012-12-27T06:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=7951"},"modified":"2012-12-27T01:48:49","modified_gmt":"2012-12-27T06:48:49","slug":"a-letter-from-my-2013-self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/a-letter-from-my-2013-self\/","title":{"rendered":"A Letter From My 2013 Self"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/tomy2012self.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-7952\" alt=\"tomy2012self\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/tomy2012self-300x300.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/tomy2012self-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/tomy2012self-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/tomy2012self.jpg 477w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a>So shortly after writing up my last blog post, I got an email from myself marked December 27, 2013. \u00a0How freaky is that?I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a glitch or a feature, but apparently in 2013, you can use gmail to send messages back in time.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, the letter is pretty interesting, so I thought I&#8217;d post it. \u00a0Here it is:<\/p>\n<p>Dear Joe,<\/p>\n<p>Well, it&#8217;s been an interesting decade so far, hasn&#8217;t it? Not a bad time to be alive&#8211;and that&#8217;s going to be even clearer by the end of 2013.<\/p>\n<p>Right now, you&#8217;re still in the Republic of Georgia, anxious to get on that flight and head back home. Don&#8217;t be. You&#8217;re going to miss that place, even though it&#8217;s hard to feel that way right now. Your time there has changed you a lot more than you realize, though it&#8217;s going to take most of the year for you to figure that out.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve picked up some bad habits, mostly from the other expats. Swearing is one of them. Clean up your language&#8211;it&#8217;s not going to do you any favors, especially back in Utah. Personal hygiene is another. Just because you could go for days without showering back in Rokhi doesn&#8217;t mean that you can get away with it in the States.<\/p>\n<p>Money issues are on your mind right now. That&#8217;s good. You&#8217;ve learned how to be extremely frugal in the past two years, and that skill will serve you well. Don&#8217;t be afraid to get a crap job&#8211;that&#8217;s actually one of the best things you can do right now. The economy hasn&#8217;t improved much since you left, but if you look in the right places and speak with the right people, you&#8217;ll be able to make ends meet without too much trouble.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, your writing career should be your main focus. Don&#8217;t go chasing after the dollar. You&#8217;ve experienced a taste of success in the last few months, and you&#8217;re going to taste it again. It comes in spurts, though, so be prepared for that. You&#8217;ll figure it out&#8211;in fact, you&#8217;re already most of the way there. Just remember to keep your butt in that chair, and you&#8217;ll be all right.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, you really should spend more time on your business plan. Don&#8217;t just use it as motivation to write something else&#8211;that stuff is actually important. In Georgia, you can get away with winging it, but not in the States. That&#8217;s going to take some getting used to as well.<\/p>\n<p>Your biggest anxiety right now is your supposed lack of self-discipline. That&#8217;s actually not as much of a problem as you think. After spending a year in Georgia, you might feel incapable of working another honest day in your life, but that feeling will soon pass. In fact, 2013 is going to be a very productive year for you. All that self-discovery is going to pay off in a big way soon. So don&#8217;t worry about it so much, and remember, you haven&#8217;t written your best book yet.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the most important thing about your year in Georgia is that it really lit a fire under your butt. You know what I&#8217;m talking about. If you can travel alone to a foreign country, you can work up the courage to ask her out. No, I&#8217;m not going to tell you who. You&#8217;ll know her when you see her. But you may have to trim the beard. Just sayin&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t spend the entire year back in the States, but when you do go overseas again, you won&#8217;t be alone. No, I won&#8217;t tell you who you&#8217;ll go with, or where. Some surprises are better left unspoiled.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s more I could tell you, but that&#8217;s enough for now. You&#8217;ll figure things out on your own, same as you always have. Hope for the best, plan for the worst. Follow the path of least regret.<\/p>\n<p>Joe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So shortly after writing up my last blog post, I got an email from myself marked December 27, 2013. \u00a0How freaky is that?I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a glitch or a feature, but apparently in 2013, you can use gmail to send messages back in time. 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