{"id":7331,"date":"2012-05-29T14:41:37","date_gmt":"2012-05-29T19:41:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=7331"},"modified":"2012-05-29T14:41:37","modified_gmt":"2012-05-29T19:41:37","slug":"trope-tuesday-slap-slap-kiss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/trope-tuesday-slap-slap-kiss\/","title":{"rendered":"Trope Tuesday: Slap Slap Kiss"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_7332\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7332\" style=\"width: 264px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/han-leia-slap-slap-kiss.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-7332 \" title=\"han leia slap slap kiss\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/han-leia-slap-slap-kiss.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"264\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/han-leia-slap-slap-kiss.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/han-leia-slap-slap-kiss-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/han-leia-slap-slap-kiss-140x105.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 264px) 100vw, 264px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7332\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">There aren&#39;t enough scoundrels in your life.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Unless you have an unhealthy aversion to kissing books, you&#8217;re probably familiar with <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/SlapSlapKiss\" target=\"_blank\">Slap Slap Kiss<\/a>. \u00a0It&#8217;s common in genre romance, but you&#8217;ll often find it in science fiction &amp; fantasy too. \u00a0When done well, it&#8217;s a great way to <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/BelligerentSexualTension\" target=\"_blank\">make sparks fly<\/a>, but when done poorly&#8230;I think you can fill in the rest.<\/p>\n<p>The basic underlying concept is that love and hate are just two sides of the same coin. \u00a0Both involve strong feelings for another person, the kind that drive you crazy and make it hard to think straight. \u00a0According to this theory, it&#8217;s a lot easier to fall in love with someone you hate than to fall in love with someone you don&#8217;t really care about. \u00a0And once you <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/TrueLovesKiss\" target=\"_blank\">fall in love<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/FallingInLoveMontage\" target=\"_blank\">the rest is easy<\/a>. &lt;snark!&gt;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/SlapSlapKiss\" target=\"_blank\">Kiss Kiss Slap<\/a> is the <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/Tsundere\" target=\"_blank\">Tsundere&#8217;s<\/a> standard MO. \u00a0An effective way to end the <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/WillTheyOrWontThey\" target=\"_blank\">will they or won&#8217;t they?<\/a> phase, though the trope is so common that you can spot it almost as soon as the slapping starts (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.qwantz.com\/index.php?comic=956\" target=\"_blank\">Dinosaur Comics has a good commentary on that<\/a>). \u00a0Sometimes happens in conjunction with <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/FoeYay\" target=\"_blank\">Foe Yay<\/a>, though the couple doesn&#8217;t have to start out as sworn enemies. \u00a0The kiss itself is usually one of those &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/ShutUpKiss\" target=\"_blank\">lovely trick[s] designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous<\/a>.&#8221; When set up properly, is often accompanied by a <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/LoveEpiphany\" target=\"_blank\">Love Epiphany<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it&#8217;s possible to <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/MoodWhiplash\" target=\"_blank\">go too far<\/a>. \u00a0There&#8217;s a fine line between &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/LoveHurts\" target=\"_blank\">all&#8217;s fair<\/a>&#8221; and <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/KickTheDog\" target=\"_blank\">kicking the dog<\/a>, and if you cross it&#8230;<a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/DestructiveRomance\" target=\"_blank\">good luck<\/a>. \u00a0Alternately, if the slapping doesn&#8217;t cross the line, but the kiss doesn&#8217;t <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/TheBigDamnKiss\" target=\"_blank\">live up to expectations<\/a>, it&#8217;s also going to fall flat. \u00a0And if the main reason you invoke this trope is because the plot demands it&#8230;let&#8217;s just say, <a href=\"http:\/\/limyaael.livejournal.com\/345153.html\" target=\"_blank\">you&#8217;re doing it wrong<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In general, I think it&#8217;s important to keep the following in mind:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The attraction needs to be properly foreshadowed.<\/strong>\u00a0 If the characters start slapping each other without even a hint of <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/UnresolvedSexualTension\" target=\"_blank\">sexual tension<\/a>\u00a0first, no amount of <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/AssPull\" target=\"_blank\">backpedaling<\/a> is going to make up for it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Neither of the characters should tear each other down.<\/strong>\u00a0 There&#8217;s a big difference between a slap and a punch (and a <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/ThereIsNoKillLikeOverkill\" target=\"_blank\">roundhouse kick<\/a>, for that matter). \u00a0Even though the characters may <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/TheMasochismTango\" target=\"_blank\">abuse each other<\/a>, they have to have at least some mutual respect. \u00a0After all, Han still called Leia &#8220;your highness,&#8221; and Leia still complimented Han on his &#8220;bucket of bolts&#8221; (albeit sarcastically). \u00a0Once the respect is gone, so is any hint of romance.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The kiss needs to be proportional to the slap.<\/strong>\u00a0 Lots of slap with an innocent little peck is going to feel anticlimactic, while a tap on the chin with a giant make out moment immediately afterward is going to feel melodramatic. \u00a0The two need to be balanced in order for the trope to work.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The couple should have at least something in common.<\/strong>\u00a0&#8220;Opposites attract&#8221; is often just an excuse for shoddy character development. \u00a0In real life, if the two people don&#8217;t have at least <em>something<\/em>\u00a0in common, value-wise and personality-wise, the romance is pretty much doomed to fail. \u00a0As always, however, <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/YMMV\" target=\"_blank\">Your Mileage May Vary<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Finally, even though there are a lot of reasons to hate this trope, there&#8217;s a reason we keep coming back to it. \u00a0What that reason is exactly, I can&#8217;t say, but I know it when I see it. \u00a0After all, you really shouldn&#8217;t over analyze some things. \u00a0Like this video:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/EURF2PlIqtE\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I think my work here is done. \u00a0What sayest thou?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unless you have an unhealthy aversion to kissing books, you&#8217;re probably familiar with Slap Slap Kiss. \u00a0It&#8217;s common in genre romance, but you&#8217;ll often find it in science fiction &amp; fantasy too. \u00a0When done well, it&#8217;s a great way to make sparks fly, but when done poorly&#8230;I think you can fill in the rest. The&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/trope-tuesday-slap-slap-kiss\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Trope Tuesday: Slap Slap Kiss<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[112,682,259,361,160,306,641,565,626,117],"class_list":["post-7331","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-character","tag-foreshadowing","tag-just-for-fun","tag-love","tag-romance","tag-star-wars","tag-trope-tuesday","tag-tropes-and-cliches","tag-tvtropes","tag-violence","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7iXK-1Uf","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7331","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7331"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7331\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7338,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7331\/revisions\/7338"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7331"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7331"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7331"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}