{"id":7194,"date":"2012-04-16T15:38:53","date_gmt":"2012-04-16T20:38:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=7194"},"modified":"2012-04-16T15:38:53","modified_gmt":"2012-04-16T20:38:53","slug":"whats-your-backup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/whats-your-backup\/","title":{"rendered":"What’s your backup?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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So I just got back from Easter vacation in Turkey, at Trabzon<\/a> and Lake Uzung\u00f6l<\/a>. \u00a0It was pretty awesome–I’ll definitely be blogging about it in the next couple of days! \u00a0First, though, I wanted to share something interesting that happened on the way back.<\/p>\n

While I was hanging out in Batumi with some other TLG volunteers eating Adjarian khatchapuri<\/a>\u00a0(an experience in itself), we got to talking about what we’re going to do with our lives after we get back to the States. \u00a0Most of them didn’t really want to think about it, which surprised me, so I asked why.<\/p>\n

They told me they didn’t want to have to figure out the rest of their lives–that coming out to Georgia to teach English was a way of putting off those major life decisions. \u00a0Fair enough. \u00a0They then asked me if I’ve figured it out. \u00a0 I said yes: that I want to be a full-time writer, and that I’m out here to see the world and get some cultural experience as I try to make that dream a reality.<\/p>\n

One of the girls then asked what my backup was if that didn’t work out. \u00a0To be honest, I had no idea what to say. \u00a0My plan at this point is to just keep teaching and traveling until the dream becomes a reality. \u00a0Am I confident that it will? \u00a0Eventually, yeah–as long as I keep writing, which I certainly will.<\/p>\n

I thought about it a bit on the way back, and realized that my mindset has shifted tremendously in the past few years. \u00a0When I was back in college, and to some extent for the first year after I graduated, I used to worry a lot about my “backup plan.” It was a way of addressing the fear of failure, of creating an illusion of safety by having a “fallback.”<\/p>\n

I’m sure there are careers where that’s a good idea. \u00a0Generally, those are careers with definite paths, where if you don’t pass a certain number of checkpoints, you’re basically screwed. \u00a0With writing, though, there is no set path that everybody follows–especially now with ebooks and epublishing. \u00a0Because of this, it’s impossible to really fail–either you keep on trying until you make it, or for one reason or another you give up.<\/p>\n

Ever since I graduated in 2010, I’ve been structuring my life in such a way that I can continue to pursue my writing. \u00a0Every job I’ve taken has just been a stepping stone, a bridge to allow me to keep pursuing this dream. \u00a0Have I made it yet? \u00a0No, but I haven’t given up yet either, so I haven’t had to fall back on my backup–whatever that would mean at this point.<\/p>\n

From the outside, it probably looks like I’m being hopelessly responsible–that, or willfully oblivious to a hundred things I should be worried sick about. \u00a0However, I’m actually quite confident that I’m on the right path and things will work out–and that surprises me. \u00a0It’s like that moment when you realize you’re actually swimming, not just kicking and thrashing about the pool.<\/p>\n

Worst case scenario, I fall head over heels in love with an awesome, wonderful girl, and after a few heady months filled with blissful romance, I wake up one morning and realize that I’m married. \u00a0If that happens, I might have to put my writing on hold for a while until I get things sorted out so that I can support both myself and my wife–but then again, with her help, I might be able to do twice as much, or even more. \u00a0Perhaps that will help my writing career even more than trying to go it alone.<\/p>\n

So really, there is no back up plan or worst case scenario–just the future. \u00a0And as Georgians are so fond of saying, “no one can know what will happen in future.”<\/p>\n

What a relief.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So I just got back from Easter vacation in Turkey, at Trabzon and Lake Uzung\u00f6l. \u00a0It was pretty awesome–I’ll definitely be blogging about it in the next couple of days! \u00a0First, though, I wanted to share something interesting that happened on the way back. While I was hanging out in Batumi with some other TLG… Continue reading What’s your backup?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[89,698,705,33,46,90,30,495],"class_list":["post-7194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-career-decisions","tag-cultural-experiences","tag-georgia","tag-girls-and-dating","tag-goals-and-plans","tag-graduation","tag-life-decisions","tag-teaching-english-abroad","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7iXK-1S2","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7194"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7194\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7199,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7194\/revisions\/7199"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}