{"id":10589,"date":"2016-06-06T19:12:37","date_gmt":"2016-06-07T01:12:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=10589"},"modified":"2016-06-06T19:12:37","modified_gmt":"2016-06-07T01:12:37","slug":"life-without-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/life-without-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"Life without social media"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It has been more than a week since I&#8217;ve posted\u00a0here, which is a bit surprising. Then again, I did decide to take a short break from writing, which pushed blogging a little further down the priority tree. The much higher priority has been finishing my friend&#8217;s basement before his wife has a baby next week (they&#8217;re inducing labor on the 14th).\u00a0Twelve-hour workday sure are brutal.<\/p>\n<p>In any event, I&#8217;ve been reflecting a lot on\u00a0the craziness of politics these days, and the role of social media in that craziness. Without getting too deep into\u00a0Trump vs. Clinton vs. Bernie, it seems\u00a0sometimes that the supporters for each candidate are living in entirely different worlds.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps that&#8217;s because they are.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.journalism.org\/2016\/05\/26\/news-use-across-social-media-platforms-2016\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.journalism.org\/files\/2016\/05\/PJ_2016.05.26_social-media-and-news_0-01.png\" width=\"199\" height=\"445\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.journalism.org\/2016\/05\/26\/news-use-across-social-media-platforms-2016\/\">According to Pew Research<\/a>,\u00a0three out of five\u00a0Americans get their news from social networking sites, with one out of five getting their news from social media often.\u00a0For Reddit, Facebook, and Twitter, the majority of users get their news from the site.<\/p>\n<p>But these sites are not politically agnostic. Far from it, in fact. Just last month, the story broke that <a href=\"http:\/\/gizmodo.com\/former-facebook-workers-we-routinely-suppressed-conser-1775461006\">Facebook may be censoring<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/louderwithcrowder.com\/not-shocking-facebook-censors-conservative-websites\/#.V1Xvw1YrJcY\">conservative viewpoints<\/a>, with the head of Facebook&#8217;s trending news manager <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breitbart.com\/tech\/2016\/05\/11\/facebook-trending-manager-tom-stocky-clinton-max-donor\/\">maxxing out his donations to<\/a> Clinton&#8217;s election campaign. Compare that with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=10429\">#RIPTwitter<\/a> and their Orwellian &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/about.twitter.com\/safety\/council\">Trust and Safety Council<\/a>,&#8221; populated almost entirely by left-leaning groups that oppose free speech.<\/p>\n<p>Do Twitter and Facebook have a right to be politically partisan? Yes. They are private businesses, and as such should be allowed to participate in politics just like any other business (of course there are issues when <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2015\/09\/27\/angela-merkel-caught-on-hot-mic-pressing-facebook-ceo-over-anti-immigrant-posts.html\">they lie<\/a> about being\u00a0politically agnostic, but that&#8217;s a different issue).<\/p>\n<p>The problem\u00a0is that people\u00a0have come to rely on social media so much that it completely warps the reality that they live in.<\/p>\n<p>Every online community is, to\u00a0a greater or lesser extent, an echo chamber that amplifies the viewpoints that the members tend to agree\u00a0on and suppresses the viewpoints where most of the members disagree.\u00a0This\u00a0is why we have\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Godwin%27s_law\">Godwin&#8217;s Law<\/a>: because\u00a0intellectual laziness is easy when everyone thinks you&#8217;re right. As online communities grow, the culture becomes even more self-sorting,\u00a0developing complex narratives\u00a0to reaffirm and reinforce the rightness of the group.<\/p>\n<p>Essentially, humans are tribal, and the trend is for online communities to be more tribal, not less.\u00a0Social media accelerates this trend by enabling users to fine-tune their tribes, blocking out\u00a0any uncomfortable or dissenting viewpoints and creating a &#8220;safe space&#8221; where the user&#8217;s core beliefs are continually reinforced.<\/p>\n<p>When people spend more time with their carefully curated online tribes than they do with people in the real world, the online reality becomes their reality. Instead of facing uncomfortable truths about the way the world actually works, they craft their own\u00a0worlds where they don&#8217;t have to be responsible for their own actions, and their beliefs are always correct, even when they&#8217;re based on a failed ideology.<\/p>\n<p>(As a side note, this is why gaslighting is such a big thing nowadays: it&#8217;s the art of crafting\u00a0<em>someone else&#8217;s<\/em>\u00a0online reality, without them realizing what&#8217;s happening. It&#8217;s a tactic that we see very often in today&#8217;s online politic debates.)<\/p>\n<p>So what happens when one of these social media junkies comes out of their online echo chambers?<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/TpyPpwkM3Fw\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Whatever your position on LGBTQ issues, you have to admit that Steven Crowder absolutely destroyed Zack Ford in that debate. It wasn&#8217;t even close. The Twitter warrior was woefully unprepared to answer even the most basic criticisms of his underlying assumptions, and seemed frankly shocked\u00a0that those assumptions were\u00a0under debate.<\/p>\n<p>This is what happens when you live in a virtual world. When you can simply block or unfollow any viewpoint that&#8217;s inconvenient to your preferred narrative, then the narrative becomes your only truth, no matter how false it actually is.<\/p>\n<p>In its extreme form, it&#8217;s just as scary as the worst propaganda of the 20th century. In fact, it&#8217;s even more scary, because\u00a0<em>we&#8217;re doing it to ourselves.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I feel like I&#8217;ve got a unique perspective on this issue because, for most of the last year, I&#8217;ve been living without social media. I <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=9458\">deleted my Facebook<\/a>\u00a0back in 2014, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onelowerlight.com\/writing\/?p=10429\">disengaged from Twitter<\/a>\u00a0back in March.<\/p>\n<p>(Since then, I have gone back to Facebook in a limited way, only because there&#8217;s a particular church group where the only way to keep up with events is to be part of the Facebook group. But I&#8217;ve only friended family and close friends and liked only a couple\u00a0of political pages, and even then, I&#8217;ve felt the pull. When I&#8217;m no longer a part of this church group, I will delete my Facebook again and leave the site for good.)<\/p>\n<p>Life is a lot different without social media. It&#8217;s a lot less stressful, a lot more satisfying. I get out more. I have deeper and more meaningful conversations with my friends. I no longer feel\u00a0like I&#8217;m perpetually caught up in imbecilic arguments with twats and idiots. I\u00a0feel\u00a0a lot more free to pursue constructive things, like my writing.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, it really does feel sometimes that I went to sleep ten years ago and woke up in a different world.\u00a0It&#8217;s like everyone else is crazy, and I&#8217;m the only sane one (until I discovered Ben Shapiro). I&#8217;m not sure how much of that has to do with leaving social media, since I only did that recently. Perhaps it was only by leaving social media that I realized how much everything outside of that echo chamber\u00a0had changed.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m actually a lot happier without social media than I was with\u00a0it. At the same time, I feel a lot less connected with what&#8217;s going on in my country right now. But is that only an illusion? Is it kind of like how you always\u00a0feel like your writing sucks just as it starts to get better?<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the case, I do know that if I were more active on social media, I would definitely be\u00a0the guy that offends everyone with my political views, including a lot of potential readers. I suppose I could roll with it\u00a0like\u00a0Larry Correia, but I&#8217;m not quite passionate enough about\u00a0politics to make that my shtick.<\/p>\n<p>Though with the way things are shaping up politically, I may do a fisking or two on my\u00a0blog.\u00a0On that note, I&#8217;ll leave you with Ben Shapiro bringing some sanity to the news cycle:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T8OorV06rw4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It has been more than a week since I&#8217;ve posted\u00a0here, which is a bit surprising. Then again, I did decide to take a short break from writing, which pushed blogging a little further down the priority tree. 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